saynotostalkers

saynotostalkers:

self-distract:

saynotostalkers:

saynotostalkers:

Go Fund Me has investigated my stalker’s claim that this is a scam and I have provided evidence to their satisfaction that this fundraising is authentic.

My stalker’s claims to be the victim began shortly after I advised her her conduct was stalking and she developed this narrative of me being the stalker to discredit me and justify her further harassment.

I have the right to the best defence possible when faced with such deliberately malicious accusations. I’m sure I don’t need to detail the extra anguish her efforts to prevent me defending myself to the full ability I am able has caused me, especially as she is the one who has chosen to start this fallacious legal process based on false claims. This is yet more example of her harassment. I will further point out there is NOTHING stopping her, if she is so confident she is in the right, to similarly crowd source for support.

I can provide witnesses in the double digits to corroborate my experience as well as ample evidence.

I will also add that with the exception of one person all those who have donated thus far are people who WITNESSED this woman’s stalking and harassment of me AND some of them have ALSO been harassed by her.

I am obviously not going to name these people… They made their donations anonymous for a reason, because they fear retaliatory action from the stalker. One donator who did sign his name left a comment indicating he has witnessed this behaviour. The stalker has herself extensively documented her own campaign of harassment and stalking. It is easily accessible for any who wish to investigate. I will not engage directly with the stalker nor meet her terrorist demands. Further documentation of relevant costs she made necessary through filing this bogus claim will be provided as I receive them. And should any donations raised not be necessary? They will be refunded or donated to a women’s shelter, as per the donator’s preference.

Guys, I followed both parties at the start of this, and it got real messy, real fast. Deb’s behaviour was pretty darn frightening at times and I unfollowed her after she started wildly accusing her followers of being involved in this disaster.

My interactions with Elise have always been pleasant, her answers to asks always informative and well-intentioned. I follow her because she has opened my eyes to a lot of issues in the world, and because she has a totally enviable vintage collection!

Whatever your position, everyone should be entitled to defend themselves in court, and it would be super if any of my followers could help out. A few dollars can go a long way.

(I’ve used first names in this post because they are so freely available in the history of both blogs. If anyone would like me to amend that, let me know)

Thank you. <3